How to Get Rid of People Who Are Dragging You Down

Alex Monaco
4 min readDec 17, 2018

I will share a conversation I had with one of my readers. Let’s begin:

Reader, I shared the piece of dialog with you. I hope you have understood what I wanted to say?

But that’s not all…

I have some ideas for you… but ARE YOU READY FOR THE TRUTH?

Yes or no?

I know you are surrounded by some bad people too…

But it is not bad…

People who are uncomfortable give you a ton of advantages.

Here’s an excerpt from an endless list:

1. Thanks to an unfortunate person, you understand who you should not be & what kind of person would you like to be.
2. The person who is dragging you down trains your sense of self-control.
3. These evil people are measures of mercy and forgiveness. Thanks to their help, you will find out whether you’re an understanding or cold person. If no one ever pulls you down, how will you find out whether you’re a villain or…4
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6………
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As you can see, my thoughts are not standard, so I won’t promote the following, well-known quote: “If you want to be successful, surround yourself with successful people.” Although this phrase has logic, I have created a much better one: “Be among successful people and those who need help.”

Do you now understand why I didn’t give up on my old friends?

Although some of them are drunks and smokers, I’m still with them…

FRIENDS

My purpose is to be near them…

Because friends behave like that, they are near…

I’m not trying to change my friends because my friends’ job is not to change, but simply be…

I hope they will change, but my task is to show them a good example, not to teach them…

I’m not a hero…

and…

It’s hard for me as well…

Sometimes…

But such is life, it should be hard and interesting, right?

Although sometimes it may be really tempting to hit some people on the forehead, but there are always other ways to solve problems.

I have tried many times and I know that I cannot change a person by beating them or by reading lectures! It’s another thing when a person asks for a lesson and is ready to receive advice. But if that person doesn’t want, then it doesn’t make sense… I hope you understand what I am trying to say. Perhaps you still want to get rid of difficult people. In this case, I will help you. I will present the ways/methods to you right away!

HOW TO GET RID OF PEOPLE

Getting rid of someone who doesn’t bring benefit to your life can be achieved in various ways. The easiest way to do this is when that person says something wrong. Pretend that you are offended. Quickly take advantage of that person’s mistakes and remove them from your life! And try to seem that you have nothing to do with it. This is how all weak people behave! You could even behave in a way that is simpler. Do not answer your phone! Make it seem as though you’re a busy person. You don’t need to tell that individual what’s going on — you will save time! Your life is the most important thing in this world, and the lives of others are worthless, so behave like a piece of garbage. Of course, I, Alex Monaco, do not think you should behave in such a way. In your place, I would not throw people overboard… Because in old age, you will regret that you were a weak person…

REMEMBER THIS: Only those who accept the most difficult tasks become great people!

So, reader, I have a question for you. What’s your purpose in life: to complain or to raise up those who need help?

oin the new movement named “INSPIRING PEOPLE!” In the comments, write statements such as “My job is to help — I’ll start helping others today”; “I think it’s unfair to get rid of weaker people!”; “I believe that I can only succeed by helping others to discover happiness”; or: ……

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